a LLLOOONNNNGGGG entry on thanku
was originally in a gd mood today (esp for man utd fans like me) but sth jus ruined my day.. idiotic~
anw, came across this interestin quote by e supposedly auntie killer 97.2fm dj billy wong... "we shd start treatin our friends as strangers. u wld b cordial to strangers and offer help at e least expected moment. but to friends, most of the time u take them for granted. change that by sayin thank u to them."
kinda agree with him, but i think other than friends, family members are even more taken for granted, esp our parents. who arent guilty of this, myself included... but i've learnt to show my appreciation more, like commentin on how delicious e dinner is (and really meanin it by finishin e food n not leaving everything untouched! ) or jus a simple thank u when they help me with sth... u may think they're un-needed but im simply someone who's pretty particular bout it cos i hate to feel tt my help has gone unappreciated...
rmb not long ago, was tryin to help my friend out by bringin this thingy for her but she's still unsure whether she really needed it. not wantin to brin it to sch(all e way to nus mind u...)for nuthing, i asked her to confirm with me by tt night if she needed it and her reply was a "then dun bring lor..."... i may b alittle oversensitive but e impression she gave me with tt kinda tone was like "i nv wanted ur help anw... it's u who volunteered and now u're complaining... den dun bring lor..." ... at e moment, i was so pissed la! but owell... 就算了啦~ (aka nvm then...) *feels i'm reading too much into it but tt's me la...*
but again, sometimes, will sayin too much of "thank u" seems too fake? pour u a glass of water...thank u, accompany u... thank u, buy u sth... thanks... being family n friends, wun tt little help b nuthing n hence, no need to say 10x?
*tough balance* but i still think it's VERY necessary to show tt little appreciation... :P
anw, was watchin a show when e host asked an amusing qn... imagine u haf a cat and a dog, giving them food everyday, cleaning their 'house' and giving them love... what do u think r the thots of these 2 animals?
here's e ans he gave-
for e dog, he'll treat U as HIS god because u care so much for him whereas for e cat, he'll think tt u care for him because HE is YOUR god... sounds pretty much like their attitudes... =)
so... which animal r u?
haf u said ur "thank u"? ;>
DROPS OF RAINBOWY