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Thursday, July 23, 2009 11:26 PM

an all-about-me post

communication is a 2-way thing. BOTH parties LISTEN and talk. (though i know i'm guilty of talking too much in front of ppl like liu, celine, grace!)

it's just so frustrating talking to ppl who always talk about themselves. whatever things i say, their reply will always be "i think i... i... " and more "i...".
i'm hoping for at least a "y do you think so?" or sth with "you".

i have a bad day and i complain about it. instead of any word of consolation, they start saying "o i had a terrible day too... i kena this, i kena that...", TOTALLY IGNORING what i just told them. wth. but of cos, dun get me wrong. i'll be most willing to listen for hours if they ever need my listening ear.

i saw something i like that they totally disapprove, they roll their eyes/give me THAT look and walk away (So extremely rude), or cut me off, when i do listen to them talking about the things THEY like. (i'm not saying i always do that, but at least i make the efforts)

i start telling them sth, they cut me off and talk about stuff that interest them. (Alright i know, i'm boring...)

so pls understand when i choose not to tell ppl anything anymore.

i know this whole post is ultra narcissistic, but i'm not communicating with anyone here. i can rant whatever i want w/o getting interrupted.

i'm also still learning the balance between listening and talking. who say communication is easy?

*pls i'm not pointing fingers at anyone in particular, just a general rant. this is such an incoherent post. i know, it's my pms again.

DROPS OF RAINBOWY


PROFILE
*juliana lim
*24th aug 1986, virgo
*juliana.limsl@gmail.com
*tv freak

LOVES
+family n friends
+my cats
+animals
+food, in particular Japanese and Taiwanese food
+sleeping
+baking
+罗志祥
+manchester united
+wayne rooney
+ryan giggs
+nemanja vidic
+csi, csi:ny, whose line is it anyway
+soccer matches
+娱乐百分百
+转角*遇到爱
+lord of the rings

HATES
#disrespect
#being spoken to in a i-told-u-so/rude tone
#talking to ppl who nv listen, as if whatever i say r trash
#being called stupid
#poor personal hygiene
#waking up early
#cockroaches
#secondhand smoke

SHOWS THAT I WATCH
@amazing race
@american idol
@american's next top model
@brothers & sisters
@csi
@csi:miami
@csi:ny
@desperate housewives
@dirty jobs
@flashforward
@lost
@project runway
@survivor
@the mentalist
and more...

WISHLIST
LOTR dvd set
转角*遇到爱 dvd
an oven
a watch
get a pet
take a pic wif 小豬
go to 百分百 recording
see Man Utd play a match live
iPhone
be happy
go to old trafford for a match n c all e man utd players
earn enough to bring my family for holiday annually
go to venice
go to egypt
set up my own pastry shop
backpacking
sky dive and bungee jumping
haf all my 4 wisdom tooth extracted :)
lasik
and the list goes on...

SHOUTOUT


MEMORIES
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